I have a friend who was born physically male but is in the process of transitioning. I like her a lot and I think she is very beautiful.(Even if she hasn’t transitioned much.)
I really want to start a relationship with her but I am bit nervous. I dont want to mess something up and ruin it all. What do you think?
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I like the advice Paula gave you in this question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsKl2_6DEzjVfXBgm.Hqr7Pty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091130011401AATi9XZ&show=7#profile-info-tq4bl3Ehaa
Just treat her like any other girl and be there to support her. This site has a few good articles about how to date a transsexual http://tsgirlfriend.com/ Also if she is very early in her transition she might not feel ready to be in a relationship yet with all the changes going on. Find out her orientation too if you don’t know. I only date girls myself. Good luck!
You could start by crumpling up an empty cigaret packet and throwing it behind the couch. Or maybe you could tie little bits of raw bacon on a string and dangle them in front of her. Or you could invest in a full-length mirror, or a really super-size bug zapper. And there’s epoxy-based bird-lime.
try being there as a friend first– if she can trust you thru her long transition, then she’ll be more likely to be close afterwards.
i thik you shouls wait for the transition to complete and wait to see her reaction as a female to you.like as in how she treats you, if she starts to flirt with you, etc. dont push it but when the time is right let her know how you feel about her and wait for her reaction to that to go into any details. if its a bad reaction i wouldnt go any further than that, but if its a good reaction go ahead and tell her eerything.but just start off like "how would you feel if i liked you" or " do you like anyone in particular" something like that…